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My view on the choosing of roommates  

2007-12-03 23:51:13|  分类: 心情故事 |  标签: |举报 |字号 订阅

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Last night, I visited someone's QQ space and read an article she wrote. She puts some arguements of the importance of choosing the good roommates.

The origin article is as follow:

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While studying at university,many students find that sharing an apartment with roommates is the best living situation available. These arrangements can work out quite well,as long as one chooses the right roommate. There are a number of important qualities that one should look for in a potential roommate. These qualities include frienglines,cleanlines,and a good work ethic.
  
   Choosing a friendly roommate is very important if one wants to create a healthy living environment, If one's roommate is unfriendly, many annoying situations can occur, For example, if one's roommate is unfiendly, it is difficult to hold a conversation with him/her. Being able to have a pleasant conversation is vital, as everyone needs to have a short break from studying from time to time. Conversationcan help us to relax a little bit, and can even be a stimulus to continue our work.

   Having a clean roommate is also very important, If one's roommate is massy, it can lead to many arguments over whose turn it is to do the cleaning, If one constantly has to clean up after his or her roommate, he or she will have less time to concentrate on his/her studis, Also, living in a clean environment allows one to be much more successful in all endeacors.

   Finaly, a roommate should have a good work ethic, If one's roommate is constantly procrastinating and waiting until the minute to do assignments, it can ruin one's ability to do his oe her own work. If a roommate is always coming home late or playing music loudly instead of doing work, it will be very difficult for a studious person to get anything done.
  
   In conclusion, I believe that having a clean friendly roommate with a good work ethic is most enjoyable, It allows one to get on with his oe her own work, and to concentrate on what matters most: getting good grades and living in relax!
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However, I have some different opinions about this from her and I replied as follows:

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I agree with u. However, I still have sth to say. Althouth the chosing of  good roommates is important, the most important thing is that, how u get long with him/she/them.

In fact, when we come to the university in the first year, there is no chance for us to choose the roommates because they are all arranged by school. In such situation, you, have to try your best to get along with your roommates. It is lucky for you if ur roommates are good (e.g. friend, cleanly, no-smoking, quiet, hard-working, etc), and you will be happy to live with them. But, what if they are not so good as you expect? you quarrel with them? you hate them and antagonize with them? NO, of course you should not do like that. The best way is negotiation, conversation, communication. U have to talk with them, I do think that nobody is bad in total, maybe he/she just has some bad hobbies that they don't pay attention to. He/She will be glad to give up the the bad hobbies if you talk with them friendly, kindly, sincerely. In this way, I do think that you will make up a harmonious dormitory, hehe.

The second thing I want to say is that, enviroment is always the subordinary factor whilst the primary factor is yourself. If you want to study, if you want to work, if you want to think, nobody can interrupt you except yourself. I, can somehow be an example. I live with some guys who r staying at the dorm and playing games all days when I come to the South Campus from Zhuhai Campus. It is because that I am a party member and I want to choose the roommates at last after all the others have choosed. There were still some guys who few people want to live with them, hence, I live with them.  They pay no attention to study and stay at the dormitory palying computer game all day along, they even smoke and always let their sound box loudly. The lights are always on for the whole night and they are even watch moives like **. For everyone, he will think that it is much tough to live with persons like this. However, it doesn't matter to me, I won't affect by them, and I can still do my things as I like. I study, work, sleep, normally. I do talk with them, and we are friends. I said to them that they have to pay more attention to their study, they have to pay more attention to the feeling of others. Although they didnot always listen to me, however, they did turn off the sound when I go to sleep. The lights are still on and I can read some books on my bed (good idea, hehe). Computer games are still palying by them but I even don't know how to play, hehe. They always waster their money on cigarettes but I won't somke even if they "invite" me, hehe. I seldom be in the dormitory, I go out early and return for a sleep at noon, then go out in the afternoon until coming back for a shower in the evening, I am always at classrooms, in the lib, in the lab, at night and often come back at about 11. No matter how noisy the dormitory is, I can do my things. I think that it is an ability to adapt yourself to the enviroment. And this is sometime more important because everything is changing all the time. hehe.

Now, I live in a dormitory with my friend. It is a two-person flat, bright, quiety, and comfortable. This is a new enviroment and I like it. But, I am living alone for this monent because my roommate always goes home. He just like in the West Area of Sun Yat-sen univerisity, his father is professor and his monther is also a stuff of school, hehe. He sometimes live in the dormitory and sometimes he goes home. Hence, I sometimes live alone, hehe.

Oh, I have to go to bed now, it is late, hehe.

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Interesting, isn't it? hehe.

You can also read them on this website: http://user.qzone.qq.com/522568135 , the article :What makes a good roommate?  

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